Lawyers Appreciate...Family
I have been tagged by Carolyn Elefant of MyShingle.com and author of the upcoming book, Solo by Choice, to participate in the Second Annual "Lawyers Appreciate" holiday meme. It is always fun to add my two cents to the growing number of outstanding law related bloggers out there.
My response to the Lawyers Appreciate question came almost instantly to me after reading Carolyn's post and the kickoff post on Life at the Bar. I do everything that I can possibly do for family. That is not just limited to my family since I have focused my practice in areas that aim to help families plan for the certainties in life and to keep family money in the family. With that being said, my main motivation and therefore the thing I appreciate the most day in and day out is the family to which I belong. It is the reason that I decided to start my own law practice. The ability to easily rearrange one's schedule and to handle a specific type of legal matter allow me to make time to enjoy family. It is often said that we sometimes take certain things for granted and we fail to appreciate them until they are gone. I would be lying if I said that was not true, at least to some degree, for me.
It is easy to take a spouse, a sibling, a parent, or a child for granted because they are family and family is always there for you. Well, the truth is always, by definition, does not apply to mortal beings such as you and I. Each day is special because it is the here and now. Our tendency is to worry about the future and dwell on the past, while we fail to appreciate the present. I am an optimistic guy. I can find the silver lining in almost any situation. Yet, I have a tendency to get too wrapped up in what will happen a thousand tomorrows from today. It is a byproduct of the whole planning mindset. One thing that we can try and try to plan for is life. It is a good idea if we can maintain a strong handle on the reigns, because if we do not the things right in front of us that we hold so dear will not receive the attention they deserve.
Thus, for me the things I appreciate the most are my family. I could not do what I do without the love, support, and companionship of my wife, Karyn. I cannot imagine life without my ten brother and sister-in-laws, my three siblings, my two sets of parents and my nieces and nephews. The timing of this meme with the Christmas season is appropriate. I know the main reason I as a Christian celebrate Christmas is because of the birth of Jesus, but in so many ways the Holidays are about family to me. I had the opportunity to spend the Holidays with both sides of my family and I am very thankful for that.
To that end, I must fulfill the second part of the meme by tagging three other bloggers. Those three bloggers are Michael Grossman at Practical Lawyering, Grant Griffiths at Home Office Lawyer, and Long Duong at Home Office Envy. As Carolyn mentioned in her post, please feel free to jump in even if you haven't been tagged by posting on your blog or if you don't have a blog by posting a comment below. Thanks and Happy New Year to all of you and your families.









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